tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7839053032066340281.post4058946553895595970..comments2023-10-03T11:50:18.671-04:00Comments on Brenda's Blog: Are we getting meaner?Brenda Janowitzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02341902606434073240noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7839053032066340281.post-79727252257916515982009-02-11T00:10:00.000-05:002009-02-11T00:10:00.000-05:00I hope you don't mind, I came across your blog and...I hope you don't mind, I came across your blog and felt that I had to comment on this. <BR/><BR/>I don't think its people are getting meaner, I think a lot of it has to do with the attention that comes from acting out. Having some sort of "fued" or being outspoken to the point of I-want-to-slap-you-in-the-face-shut-the-hell-up. The "meaner" you are the more you'll draw the publics attention and all publicity is "good" publicity. <BR/><BR/>Do, I agree with how people are acting, no, but am I sitting at the edge of my seat wondering "What next?!?!?!",I'm not afraid to admit, yes I am.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7839053032066340281.post-77797453420282380052009-02-09T22:30:00.000-05:002009-02-09T22:30:00.000-05:00Are we getting meaner? Perhaps. But I think we're ...Are we getting meaner? Perhaps. But I think we're actually getting BOLDER. Like SUV drivers behind tinted windows with one hand on the steering wheel and the other flipping the bird to passing drivers, the anonymity of the Internet has provided another venue for the anonymous HATERS to post negative and mean-spirited comments. Now with the celebrity authors and actors and cited in your blog putting their names on unnecessarily negative criticisms we've seen a new line crossed. <BR/><BR/>What is the point of stating these types of opinions other than to bring on self-aggrandizing publicity?<BR/> <BR/><BR/>What is the point of stating these types of opinions other than to bring on self-aggrandizing publicity?Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17892735826823852170noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7839053032066340281.post-36356465241397100502009-02-09T18:09:00.000-05:002009-02-09T18:09:00.000-05:00did you see the news abt Rihanna and Chris Brown?did you see the news abt Rihanna and Chris Brown?Amrutha Ragavanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16377635837688910114noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7839053032066340281.post-60663933651903928262009-02-08T20:59:00.000-05:002009-02-08T20:59:00.000-05:00I totally agree that the Internet is making us mea...I totally agree that the Internet is making us meaner. I've been attacked over the Internet somewhat anonymously in the comments of a very public blog and, another time, in a very nasty post on a (former) friend's blog. Both times, the words really stung, the latter resulting in tears and a loss of friendship.<BR/><BR/>Sometimes I think we do forget someone else is reading our words on the web and there will be a reaction, even if you can't see it happening.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7839053032066340281.post-18470432251758443982009-02-06T16:28:00.000-05:002009-02-06T16:28:00.000-05:00I agree that people are braver, meaner, less thoug...I agree that people are braver, meaner, less thoughtful when they are sending a message rather than saying it face to face. My grandmother always said, "never say or write anything you wouldn't want to see on the front page of the paper." And that was before the internet and cell phones. Wise words. People can respectfully disagree with someone without being mean. We all have different opinions. I heard about those examples too and I thought they were ridiculous things to say and publicize. Don't we have more important things to worry about now days? Of course, that's just my opinion.Wrightyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16234033570150645504noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7839053032066340281.post-68177313784124437722009-02-06T09:28:00.000-05:002009-02-06T09:28:00.000-05:00Personally, I think interacting with technology ma...Personally, I think interacting with technology makes people forget that there's <I>someone</I> on the receiving end. When you're face-to-face, you tend to temper what you say, because while most of us aren't always <I>good</I> we at least try to be polite.<BR/><BR/>Behind a screen though, it's easy to forget. Sure, it's nice to say what we think, but too many people stop thinking about <I>what</I> we say, and more especially, <I>how</I> it's said. I'm sure Stephen King could've said what he said, in a much less antagonistic way.dreyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07626890852816096916noreply@blogger.com